Janet and Sunday had two children and seemed to be living a happy life until she noticed that Sunday's sexual desire for her started to decline after they welcomed their second child, Nigerian news outlet The Nation reports. According to Janet, her late husband was a sex addict when they got married and this made her become one. She said she became worried after she noticed that his desire for her sexually had declined, and at some point, he withdrew completely, The Nation reports. After much investigation, she discovered that her late husband was meeting his sexual needs through her best friend, Hellen, who is a widow. Janet said she had previously boasted to her friends about her husband's prowess in bed and that some of them had even asked her to ''borrow'' him to them so that he can also meet their sexual needs.
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Nov 08, After being together for some time, and living together for a few months, I awoke from my fantasy and realized he wasn't who I thought he Author: Xojane. 21 hours ago Angry wife poisons husband, chops off his manhood after discovering he was dating her best friend Today at AM Tell your friends. An angry Nigerian woman has reportedly poisoned her husband to. "His Best friend and His Girlfriend" that's the biggest nightmare of any guy. The loss of losing two most important person of life together will devastate Him. Still if you have feelings so I recommend to tell everything to your boyfriend right no.
As long as you're really. Because you have to be open with your heart, not date in order to fill a void because you're probably going to end up hurting the guy that you're with.
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And I'm sorry You have to find ways to make yourself feel better. I was in the same boat as you, up until maybe 3 months ago.
Even though my ex and I had been broken up for nearly a year before he started dating someone else.
It's gonna hurt. On and off.
For me, t hurt when my ex and I broke up and it hurt when he got with someone else. And it hurt when THEY broke up because deep down I knew it didn't mean we'd get back together anyway so it hurt that he was available yet still out of reach. And personally, I think one of the worst things my friends would tell me was that I'd find someone better.
So my advice to you? Find outlets. Write in a journal.
Write a letter to him withOUT actually sending it to him and just pour out all of your emotions. Take time to dwell, but don't spend all day dwelling.
Talk to your friends about it the ones who will just let you vent, not tell you to get over it. Force yourself to go out with your friends, but be okay with staying home and watching movies. Be a little selfish. Go after things you want. And don't assume that just because they're best friends they'll be together forever.
My Ex is Now Dating His Best Friend. Anonymous. Follow. Facebook. Twitter. 0 0. He and I were together 18 months. And he was everything I ever wanted, we got pretty serious. Then, he swears, he just fell out of love with me suddenly. I am trying so hard to get over it. I'm still alone. It's been 10 months. You cannot completely starve your young wife of sex and resort to dating her best friend. Many people, including his parents in the village, his pastor, and his close friends, interfered in the. Apr 11, 10 Signs You're His Girlfriend but Also His Best Friend His guy friends see you as "that one friend he also has sex with," which is a compliment, really. By Frank Kobola.
Just because you see it on tv doesn't mean it's real. You'll just tear yourself apart with that one Dines Xper 2. People can lose feelings for each other, it happens. It's not "bad" that you want to find someone else to help you get over him, as long as you make sure you're not using that person as a rebound.
I recently just got out of something with someone I felt serious about, but once I spent more of my time with friends and thought less about him, it cheered me up again and put me back on my feet.
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You should do the same. Sign Up Now! The Nation reports that Janet and Sunday had two children and seemed to be living a happy life until she noticed that Sunday's sexual desire for her started to decline after they welcomed their second child.
According to Janet, her late husband was a sex addict when they got married and this made her become one. She said she became worried after she noticed that his desire for her sexually had declined, and at so point he withdrew completely. After much investigation, she discovered that her late husband was meeting his sexual needs through her best friend, Hellen, who is a widow.
Janet said she grew tired of her husband giving excuses severally as to why he was no longer able to have sex with her. She said at some point her late husband told her to fantasize about the times they had sex in order to satisfy her sexual urge.
She poisoned her husband and watched him die slowly and painfully within an hour.
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She also ensured that she chopped off his manhood. It was three years ago I discovered that my husband had fallen in love with my best friend, a widow, and had been dating her. Since then, he stopped sleeping with me; he began to starve me sexually while satisfying my best friend.
He was always in the mood.
We would make love three or four times before morning, and when he woke up, he would be ready to continue. There were days he skipped work and we would spend the whole day making love.
We had sex in the bathroom, in the kitchen, and anywhere it caught our fancy in the house. I became used to constant sex through him and also became the envy of my close friends, including my best friend who he later fell in love with. Whenever we shared stories of our exploits in bed, my friends felt I had the best man and jokingly begged me to allow them to have my husband just for a day because their husbands could not satisfy them in bed.
But shortly after we had our two kids, I began to notice his disinterest in sex with me and his performance level began to drop. While we were having sex on a regular basis before, it came down to two times in a week and later became so bad that we could stay for three or four months without making love.
Initially, I was not bothered because I felt that he would come around it after the babies were weaned. But I was wrong.
He began to starve me of sex for months on end. It got to the point that I would be begging him to sleep with me but he would rebuff my requests.
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At times, he would tell me I should relive the moments we had sex every day and wallow in that fantasy. When I pestered him further, he told me he was no more interested in sex as he had had enough to last him a lifetime. He even told me that sex is not food and that if I felt so sex-starved, I should get a man to satisfy me.
I reported the matter to our church and the pastor summoned him, but he could not convince our pastor.
I reported the matter to his parents in the village and some of his relations around, but he ignored their invitation. Within this period, my husband started keeping late night, which was very unusual of him. Unknown to me, my best friend, Hellen, who is a widow, started keeping distance with me, while some of my friends started hinting that she and my husband were dating.
I watched the way they acted and how happy he always seemed in her presence. I monitored them closely and caught them five times in a drinking joint in new Nyanyan. When I confronted him about it, he said I was being silly; so I decided to believe the whole story.