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Sign In Register. Sign up to Digital Spy's newsletter to get the biggest news and features sent straight to your inbox. So theres this girl i like, and i know she likes me. Iv been told by numerous people plus i can sort of tell anyway.
Problem is shes only just turned 17 about a month ago and i am 20 now, turning 21 early next year. I know its all fine and legal and all but it still doesnt quite seem right, just wondered what others thought. I can see problems like for example she cant drink legally and i like to go out a lot with my friends so that could cause a problem amongst other things.
Just wondered what people thought. I was 17 and had a 21 year old boyfriend way back when I was that age My parents were very protective, and the first time I stayed at his they panicked a bit we never did sleep together I didn't feel ready, but we did share a bed He would take me to the pub with him and his mates and I would just have soft drinks, we still had fun.
I might not be the best person to ask because it never developed into anything serious was only a few months but for the most part the age gap didnt seem to bother other people, nor did it bother either of us.
Boys my own age back then were still fairly immature which is what I think attracted me to a slightly older man. They worried even more when I hit 20 and spent two years going out with a man 15 years older than me :eek: but thats a whole other story! Shrike Posts: 15, Forum Member.
She likes you, you like her - go on - give it a go!
17 dating 21, Is It Wrong?
Whats the worst that can happen? U96 Posts: 13, Forum Member. I went out with a 16 year old when I was Before that I was going out with a 14 year old when I was 18 and no I didn't do anything illegal Looking at it written there that sounds so wrong.
But I don't think it is I've always gone out with women younger then me and have only been out with one older. But then she did lie and tell me she was the same age as me when she was infact 5 years older!
My current girlfriend is 5 years younger then me. Alexi79 Posts: Forum Member. My wife was 17 when we met. I was That was 6 years ago.
Nothing terrible happened out - the difference in ages. The main thing - to love one another, but this just is not with us.
21-Year-Old Dating Teen He’s Never Met In Person Speaks Out About Relationship
I was seeing a 20 year old for a while when I was 16 - it was all okay. Nothing wrong with that.
Most places the legal age of consent is 16 anyways. Its fine, why the hell would anyone 17 wanna date a guy around their own age anyway?
Aug 18, No. 18 and over can date 18 and older. Othwerwise it's against the law. The 21 year old is a child molester and go to prison. BTW in prison child molesters are considered the lowest of the low and are gang raped by males. Jul 26, Hi, I'm 17 and I'm dating a 21 year old man? is that wrong?. I know it's Illegal. But it seems like a pretty stupid law to me. I understand 15 14 16 yeah But 17 That's a four year difference, it's not so bad. I don't like the guys my age cuz their all pretty immature, and when I get into a relationship with them I can feel what they want from me, just . Sep 25, What are the laws for a 17 year old dating a 21 year old? Question Details: A 17 year old is a minor. A 21 year old is an adult. In every state, there are laws that cover sex and sexual contact between minors and adults and what is considered illegal. Your parents can get him and you into deep hot water if they report this to the police.
Don't worry about what the lil jealous immature boys say. Wait till you're Although given that this question was posted 6 years ago, you'd be 23 now, so now it's ok!
You obviously shouldn't be dating a legal adult if you can't even count. You're not on his level intellectually, and if you are, then he is slow, and not worth anyone's time.
If he's above your level intellectually, then he doesn't respect you factand he's probably going to cheat on you and string you along so long as he gets exactly what you think the 17 year old boys want from you. You probably feel secure with him because he's got a car, probably lives on his own, and seems to be respectful and intelligent. But, you need to consider why girls his age don't want him.
Technically, that'd be 17 1/2. But the issue with the age rule is that it doesn't take into account the maturity difference between an 18 year old and a 21 year old. A 25 year old shouldn't be dating a 19 year old. The rule's just an arbitrary justification . 21 year old dating a 17 year old, opinions. I was 17 and had a 21 year old boyfriend (way back when I was that age) My parents were very protective, and the first time I stayed at his they panicked a bit (we never did sleep together I didn't feel ready, but we did share a bed).
They clearly don't, or he wouldn't be with you. Sorry, but it's true. No, it is not a huge problem. Its just the fact that people assume he's a creep and act like its a huge deal, there are plenty of men are out there who are not creeps and would date a girl that is only a few years younger is not a big deal, but if he is nice, ask for your consent: like giving you a kiss, are putting his arms around you you'll be fine.
Also in some states there is the age of consent which is their is legal age to have sex which is around at years, but I would wait for sex around at Also your parents need to know even if they won't accept at first and plus your not really a child anymore your going to be an adult too just be careful around the people who judge him. Answer Save. Love laughs at laws.
Love doesn't pay attention to laws. Can you learn anything from my story?
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You can sign in to vote the answer. Smark Lv 6. As much as I'm sure you're going to hate me and think you're right anyway Nothing wrong with it at all.
Ofcourse it's not wrong.
Apr 13, So if the parents have told her not to date a 21 year old, they find out, and get angry, they can then take a charge on you called Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor because you (as an adult) have aided and encouraged the 17 year old to engage in conduct (dating you in obedience to her parents) that could result in her being adjudicated. 17 year old girl and 24 year old boy GIRLS - Would you rather date a younger or older guy? 16 and 21 year old: is it ok? do you think 16 year old should date 21 years old a 15 year old girl+a 21 year old guy in love? Guys- is dating a girl 4 years younger weird? Match is strictly for teens aged 18 and 19 (as well as young adults, millennials, and seniors, among others). Once you verify your age and email, you can finish filling out your profile, specify what you're looking for in a friend, date, or partner, browse through members, receive matches, and send virtual winks and likes. Founded in
Samantha Smith. How can liking someone ever be wrong. Plus mature guys are always more attractive.
Dating 17 year old 21
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